A BBQ / Social opportunity to round out a great weekend! A relaxed environment to socialize and share your weekend with your friends. There will be an official new member orientation at 1 p.m. during this event.
APEX will be putting some burgers and hotdogs on the grill. There will be a few sides and deserts. If you would like to bring something, drinks would be great (canned soda, water, individual juice etc).
Everyone is welcome. There is no dress code, but you must be street legal. NO cost, but donations are welcome.

This week's topic: Creating Rituals and Protocols

This month at FLAER, we delve into the creation of rituals and protocols, especially as they relate to the archetypes we've chosen for ourselves within our FLR dynamics. How do these rituals and protocols reinforce and reflect our chosen archetypes? What role do they play in enhancing and defining our relationships?

We'll explore the process of crafting these significant elements, discussing how they can serve as powerful tools for communication, connection, and respect in our dynamics. Whether you're creating new rituals and protocols or looking to refine existing ones, this session offers a space to share experiences, ideas, and practices.

Join us this Wednesday, December 20th, at 7:15pm in-person at APEX or online via Zoom.

See this event's details for Zoom link and/or to RSVP.

Don't forget to join the FLAER group on FetLife for ongoing discussion throughout the month


This group is a discussion group for women who lead or are in charge of relationships and/or dynamics associated with the BDSM/Fetish/Kinky lifestyles. It is for those who identify genetically, mentally, or emotionally as female and their slaves, submissives, boys, girls, pets, etc. The group will meet monthly to support, share, and discuss the successes, challenges, and ideas as they relate to female led relationships or dynamics in a confidential and relaxed environment.

Like all our Special Interest Groups (SIGs) this is FREE to ALL adults in the community. No APEX membership is required. If you know of someone who might be interested in this group, let them know about this meeting!

This event is intended for adults over 18 years old, and will have adult content that may be offensive. Please do not attend this event if you are offended by adult subjects, nudity, and adult language.

ABOUT APEX Special Interest Groups (S.I.G.s)
A Special Interest Group is for members of the BDSM Community who share a common interest that come together to talk, share, and support one another. Keeping with the Arizona Power Exchange mission of support, APEX provides space to these discussion groups free of charge, and membership in the club is not required. If you are interested in any of these discussion groups, please check our calendar for the schedule. Anyone over 18 who shares an interest with the group may attend. If you are interested in facilitating a S.I.G. that is not currently represented, please email This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

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